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The Importance of Choice

After being raped by two men when I was just fifteen years old, I understand the value of choice. Maybe that’s because I never had one. The trauma I experienced reminds me of the abortion ban Mississippi law makers are pushing through their state legislature. Had I become pregnant as a result of those rapes, there is no doubt in my mind that I would’ve aborted the fetus.

For most of those (pro-lifers) leaning towards the anti-choice stance, rape and incest are often the two exceptions to the rule, when it comes to the outlawing abortions. Who gives them the right to put stipulations on other people’s decisions? Who gives them the right to take away my choice? Maybe one has to have the option of choice taken away before he or she can fully understand it’s value.

Mississippi lawmakers are close to successfully banning abortion from their state. Only one abortion clinic remains and lawmakers are looking forward to putting this last remaining clinic out of business as well. How did they block it? A new bill has stacked the deck against medical doctors by adding extra stipulations, not typically required for the typical licensure to perform abortion procedures.

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Happy Friday!

Check out my new article on HuffPost World:

Check out this appalling story about how two dolphins OD’d on heroine when the responsible staff at the zoo that held them captive hosted a rave. Just another reason I HATE zoos!!! Follow this link for the full story…

Here’s an uplifting video of a baby seal being released back into the wild. Click here

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LGBT Community Makes Strides in Argentina, Loses Ground In US

This week was a big week for the global LGBT community. Yesterday, Argentina made it easier for transgendered individuals to obtain hormone therapies and sex change operations. A few days before that, the US state of North Carolina banned gay marriage and civil unions. Is it just me or does something sound wrong here? In Argentina, “Senators approved the Gender Identity law by a vote of 55-0.”  55-0? I can’t imagine that unanimity happening with any positive legislature for the LGBT in this country…

It is reported that Argentina’s President Christina Fernandez is looking forward to signing the bill. She is proud of it just like the bill she signed two years ago making Argentina the first Latin American country to legalize gay marriage… Wait a second… Let me get this strait. In Argentina gay marriage is legal AND they have a WOMAN for a president? Whoa…

“For many, gender rights were the next step.” Gender rights? Really? Because in this country many citizens still consider the transgendered community to be less than equal; entities that are sometimes treated as subhuman. Just a few days ago, North Carolina voters ruled 39% to 61% to change the verbiage of their state’s constitution to define the “only legal domestic partnership” as a partnership between a man and a woman.

Though the puritanical reign is obviously still very much in control it appears to be getting desperate. When individual state legislatures take backwards steps as other states make progress and favor equal rights for the LGBT community, it only makes the oppositional states, like North Carolina, look out of touch with reality. What logical grounds are they using to make these decisions? Oh, that’s right… the Bible.

The Bible is much like the Constitution: they are both open for interpretation. Unfortunately many of the Bible’s “believers” manipulate its text in the same way an attorney scours the law to find loopholes. These believers only see the Bible as open for interpretation when it gives credence to their agenda.

The United States was formed and founded on religious freedom and upholds the separation of church and state. Based on the actions of certain states, it seems that there must be a hidden clause the Constitution that says “as a US citizen, you are granted tolerance and religious freedom…unless your state’s rule is dominated by a popular Christian sect.”

I look forward to the day when gay marriage is legal and the members of the LGBT community are treated with dignity because despite all this noise, it is inevitable. I am confident that one day, these antagonists of progress will universally appear as bigoted as the mid-century opponents of the civil rights movement.

 

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I’m Quitting Writing to Become a Stripper

I’m Quitting Writing to Become a Stripper

Yeah, right. However, not long ago a male acquaintance suggested I do just that. This really blows my mind because he was the second person to do this in the last year. I am and have always been fairly conservative, kept to myself and not any type of exhibitionist so what is it that makes them say such things?

Well the first time this was suggested to me, I was still doing okay writing but not in the eyes of my friend’s boyfriend who said it. “You should become a stripper. You have the body for it.” I got mad at him. He didn’t understand why. He thought it was a compliment. I guess as a concerned friend, he thought it could really help pay my bills…

The second time it was said to me by a person who’s formal education exceeds my own. He is obviously a moron, though. Money nor degrees can do anything about that…  ” You should become a stripper and write about it.”

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New Post

Hi Everybody,

If you haven’t yet seen it, please check out my article on HuffPost about Thomas Kinkade,
Painter of Light, Dead at 54 on The Huffington Post.

Thanks!

Hayley

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Painter of Light, Dead at 54

 

On Friday April 6th, famous “painter of light” Thomas Kinkade died. Kinkade is known not only for his beautifully cheerful paintings but his strong faith and belief in Christianity. Within many of his paintings, he hid the names of his family members as well as Christian messages and symbolism such as the fish that he painted under his every signature. His nickname, “painter of light,” is likely a reference to the Renaissance; the era where the techniques of point of view and specifically light and shadow depiction were technically developed and perfected. In this era, the technique chiaroscuro was born. Chiaroscuro is a technique that utilizes light and dark shades and shadows to create realistic depth through usage of these various contrasting tonalities. The discovery of this way of painting light and shadow was drastic in comparison to the Byzantine style used throughout the middle ages.

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New on Hayley’s Comments

Good Afternoon! I would like to announce a few things.

The first is that the print copy of my book “I Know Why They Call a Shell a Shell,” will be coming out soon and I definitely want to do a giveaway/ contest. I will keep you posted on this.

Next, make sure you keep an eye out tomorrow for Linda’s new post, “I Wrote This Because You Loved Me.” The post is a touching and transcendental tribute to her beloved sister.

And finally, today I made my debut in HuffPost Politcswith my piece, “Rush Thinks We’re All Sluts.” Be sure to check it out by following this link! Have a great day everybody, XO

Hayley

 

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Podcast of The Geraldo Rivera Radio Show Featuring a Brief Interview with Yours Truly



Here is the link to listen to Hayley Rose Horzepa appear on Geraldo Rivera’s radio show:http://www.kabc.com/FlashPlayer/default.asp?SPID=41565&ID=2409698

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Tune in Geraldo Rivera This Morning!

Today I was invited to be on the Geraldo Rivera’s radio show this morning at 10AM on the NY station Wabc 770 and at noon on Kabc 790  in Los Angeles. Please tune in!

Listen to it over the internet at 10 AM at http://www.wabcradio.com/article.asp?id=2362811

And at noon at http://kabc.com/
Hayley

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My Rapist Doesn’t Know He’s a Rapist

I found this through a Facebook “share” this morning and thought you might appreciate it. I do not know the origins of this photograph. All I know is that is was taken at a DC Slutwalk.

Slutwalks are a recent slew of protests by women who are sick of being victim blamed for their rapes by their rapists and the culture at large.

 

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